I speak Spanish fluently; therefore, I can’t play the “…no jaaabl0 Españoler mucho bueno. I’m naturally outgoing and funny, so I can really be myself when speaking Spanish.
It is hard for one’s true personality to translate when speaking another language, but luckily I am a fluent Spanish speaker and have learned enough Paisa slang to be my witty self.
I have found that Medellin women, as in most parts of the world, love compliments and like it when a guy can make them laugh.
So Spanish has been essential for me here in Medellin. Socially, women are a little different than the southern California women I was used to meeting.
Imagine, our hands are on each other’s bodies before even knowing each other’s names.
More often than not I’m not even interested in talking to the girl; I just want to dance and have fun. Amazingly, when I do that, women are more attracted than when I start talking to them while dancing.
Actually, I got more instant attention in Southern California; the “Latino effect.” The only thing that makes me stand out to women here is my height, thank God for that one tall great uncle! Regardless, I look on the bright side and see this as an advantage.I have been dating Colombian women for over 6 years now.When I first arrived here, there wasn’t yet a complete guide to dating paisa women.Seeing beautiful women here is so common that Colombian men don’t even turn to look, it’s ridiculous.I’ve been here 5 years and I’m still floored at some of the women in my gym!