Ideally, you want to use it to complement and augment your existing chances of finding a partner.But what if you don’t have any chances or opportunities in your day to day life?I came along, read her profile and out of everything she mentioned, I decided to pick on that and use it as “ammo”to start a conversation. Much to her surprise, it was a comment in favour of something she wrote on her profile which caught my eye—rather than putting it in the message box, I put it in the title to grab her attention, and up till this day, I have kept it.It wasn’t the most interesting thing on her profile—that’d be quite sad. You may have similar interested, a compatible personality—you could be everything they are looking for, however even that may not be enough for some people.During my early days into the world of online dating, I did an experiment. That’s like having a hole in your pocket which continues to leak money right to your door step.
Headlines are just as important as the content in your message.Everyone jumps the gun, telling you to personalize each message you send.You follow their advice, only to realize that not only are people not responding to your messages, they’re not even opening them.It is a strict marketing teacher with a steep learning curve.The feedback you receive from your experiences with online dating with either teach you what not to do, or confuse you even further.